If you want timeline freedom, and think a first look is the only way, keep reading!

One of the biggest decisions couples face when planning their wedding day timeline is whether to have a first look. While first looks can be a sweet and intimate moment, they’re absolutely not necessary to have a smooth, stress-free timeline, and your wedding day can still flow beautifully without one! If you’re planning your Spokane wedding and debating whether skipping the first look is the right choice, here’s why you can still have a relaxed, perfectly timed day without it.

Ok, now the reasons

There’s something incredibly emotional about that first moment when you see each other at the aisle. The anticipation, the raw emotion, and the joy on your partner’s face are just as special, f not more, when you wait until the ceremony. Many couples say that saving that moment for the aisle makes it even more meaningful.

Skipping a first look allows you to fully soak in the emotions of the day without feeling like everything is happening on a strict schedule. You’ll have more natural moments with your wedding party, your family, and even quiet moments to yourself before the ceremony. This can help keep stress levels low and excitement high!

One of the biggest perks of waiting until after the ceremony for couples portraits is getting that dreamy golden-hour lighting. Spokane has some incredible sunset backdrops, and by timing your portraits later in the day, you’ll get those gorgeous, warm, romantic images that just aren’t possible earlier in the day.

But the timeline you say...


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Just because you’re skipping the first look doesn’t mean your timeline has to feel rushed! With the right planning, we can structure your wedding day so that you still have plenty of time for all the important moments. And, all my brides get that complimentary in my packages!

Here’s a quick breakdown of how your timeline can work without a first look:

  • Pre-Ceremony: Getting ready photos, individual portraits, separate wedding party photos, and separate family photos
  • Ceremony: The big moment! The first time seeing each other
  • Post-Ceremony: Short Group Family formals, wedding party photos, and finally, couples portraits during golden hour
  • Reception: You get to relax and enjoy the rest of your night without feeling rushed!


At the end of the day, your wedding should be exactly what you want. If a first look feels right, go for it! But if you’re leaning toward a traditional aisle reveal, rest assured that your timeline can still be relaxed, seamless, and full of stunning photos.

Planning a Spokane wedding and looking for a photographer who can help you create the perfect timeline? Let’s chat! I’d love to help you design a wedding day that feels effortless and true to your love story. Reach out today to start planning!